The greatest gift anyone can get in life is a Loving & Caring Friend.
Some people have always been unlucky in friendship..
They miss being any girl or guy's best friend, They miss being in a group in their real life.
Friends are Forever.. if they are true.
Friendship is not about whom u have known the longest, its about who came and never left.
I just want to put forward my personal experience.. what I have seen rather than faced.
Lets suppose.. < FRIENDSHIP B/W 2 GIRLS >
Two girls started talking to each other & find each other similar in thoughts, actions, likes & dislikes.
When the friendship is new, both find themselves lucky to have the other,
they hang out everywhere together, they laugh together and create memories.
Every secret is being shared.
They go out for shopping, movies, long drives, start studying together.
But with the passage of time.. anyone of them get to know some negative points about each other..
Or they find them doing wrong acts or silly mistakes at times,
Do you think they should create distance from each other?
The answer is NO.
But Girls actually do this..
If one of the two friends or any one of the group member is found having some negative points,
or have a different thinking & lifestyle, the other girl or the group members start ignoring the one single friend.
This is not true friendship.
Real Friendship is when you accept each other as you are.. or if one of the friends is really wrong, you should tell them & help them to improve. Its totally wrong to break the friendship.
But sadly, this happens with many girls who are in relationships or who even have guys as friends.
Because of some narrow-minded people, even good girls suffer.
The thing is girls start judging each other & then do gossips , spread all the shits about each other.
Girls, even other girls are humans.
Try to know their real feelings rather than judging them.
Now.... lets have a look on the FRIENDSHIP B/W TWO GUYZ...
When two guys become friends, they dont judge each other.
They will share everything whether it is a t-shirt, a bike or a pair of socks.
Both never think of breaking friendship if the other has a girlfriend or has a crush on any girl.
Rather both stay away from the personal matters of each other & even if they get into it, its just to help the other one to get his love.
They might not invest so many emotions like girls, but they share a great friendship.
Always ready to help each other.
And if there is any reason for the broken friendship between two guys,
the reason could be either both liked the same girl or both were being fooled in love by the same girl.
Otherwise, here... guys don't have silly reasons as the girls have.. to break the friendship.
These were two situations I've seen right from the time I have entered the college life.
Now.. let... A GUY 'n A GIRL are friends.
OfCourse, a guy & a girl can be friends.
"A best friend to a guy can be a girl but an enemy to a girl can only be a girl.."
So true these lines are.. Isn't it.. ?
When a guy & girl become friends, both respect each other.
Both invest a proper amount a trust & emotions.
Both try to keep a healthy friendship.
No..... I am not saying that.. girls cannot be true friends, but the worst kind of comparison is done among the girls only.
But girls.. if you are lucky to have a girl as a best friend, never betray her trust..
B'c0z as u get hurt, others also get hurt....! ( ._.)
Some people have always been unlucky in friendship..
They miss being any girl or guy's best friend, They miss being in a group in their real life.
Friends are Forever.. if they are true.
Friendship is not about whom u have known the longest, its about who came and never left.
I just want to put forward my personal experience.. what I have seen rather than faced.
Two girls started talking to each other & find each other similar in thoughts, actions, likes & dislikes.
When the friendship is new, both find themselves lucky to have the other,
they hang out everywhere together, they laugh together and create memories.
Every secret is being shared.
They go out for shopping, movies, long drives, start studying together.
But with the passage of time.. anyone of them get to know some negative points about each other..
Or they find them doing wrong acts or silly mistakes at times,
Do you think they should create distance from each other?
The answer is NO.
But Girls actually do this..
If one of the two friends or any one of the group member is found having some negative points,
or have a different thinking & lifestyle, the other girl or the group members start ignoring the one single friend.
This is not true friendship.
Real Friendship is when you accept each other as you are.. or if one of the friends is really wrong, you should tell them & help them to improve. Its totally wrong to break the friendship.
But sadly, this happens with many girls who are in relationships or who even have guys as friends.
Because of some narrow-minded people, even good girls suffer.
The thing is girls start judging each other & then do gossips , spread all the shits about each other.
Girls, even other girls are humans.
Try to know their real feelings rather than judging them.
Now.... lets have a look on the FRIENDSHIP B/W TWO GUYZ...
When two guys become friends, they dont judge each other.
They will share everything whether it is a t-shirt, a bike or a pair of socks.
Both never think of breaking friendship if the other has a girlfriend or has a crush on any girl.
Rather both stay away from the personal matters of each other & even if they get into it, its just to help the other one to get his love.
They might not invest so many emotions like girls, but they share a great friendship.
Always ready to help each other.
And if there is any reason for the broken friendship between two guys,
the reason could be either both liked the same girl or both were being fooled in love by the same girl.
Otherwise, here... guys don't have silly reasons as the girls have.. to break the friendship.
These were two situations I've seen right from the time I have entered the college life.
OfCourse, a guy & a girl can be friends.
"A best friend to a guy can be a girl but an enemy to a girl can only be a girl.."
So true these lines are.. Isn't it.. ?
When a guy & girl become friends, both respect each other.
Both invest a proper amount a trust & emotions.
Both try to keep a healthy friendship.
No..... I am not saying that.. girls cannot be true friends, but the worst kind of comparison is done among the girls only.
But girls.. if you are lucky to have a girl as a best friend, never betray her trust..
B'c0z as u get hurt, others also get hurt....! ( ._.)
