FRIENDSHIP : TODAY'Z REALITY

The greatest gift anyone can get in life is a Loving & Caring Friend. 
Some people have always been unlucky in friendship.. 
They miss being any girl or guy's best friend, They miss being in a group in their real life.
Friends are Forever.. if they are true.
Friendship is not about whom u have known the longest, its about who came and never left.
I just want to put forward my personal experience.. what I have seen rather than faced.

Lets suppose.. < FRIENDSHIP B/W 2 GIRLS >

Two girls started talking to each other & find each other similar in thoughts, actions, likes & dislikes.
When the friendship is new, both find themselves lucky to have the other,
they hang out everywhere together, they laugh together and create memories.
Every secret is being shared.
They go out for shopping, movies, long drives, start studying together.
But with the passage of time.. anyone of them get to know some negative points about each other..
Or they find them doing wrong acts or silly mistakes at times,
Do you think they should create distance from each other?
The answer is NO. 
But Girls actually do this..
If one of the two friends or any one of the group member is found having some negative points,
or have a different thinking & lifestyle, the other girl or the group members start ignoring the one single friend.
This is not true friendship.
Real Friendship is when you accept each other as you are.. or if one of the friends is really wrong, you should tell them & help them to improve. Its totally wrong to break the friendship. 
But sadly, this happens with many girls who are in relationships or who even have guys as friends. 
Because of some narrow-minded people, even good girls suffer.
The thing is girls start judging each other & then do gossips , spread all the shits about each other. 
Girls, even other girls are humans. 
Try to know their real feelings rather than judging them.

Now.... lets have a look on the FRIENDSHIP B/W TWO GUYZ...

When two guys become friends, they dont judge each other. 
They will share everything whether it is a t-shirt, a bike or a pair of socks. 
Both never think of breaking friendship if the other has a girlfriend or has a crush on any girl. 
Rather both stay away from the personal matters of each other & even if they get into it, its just to help the other one to get his love.
They might not invest so many emotions like girls, but they share a great friendship.
Always ready to help each other. 
And if there is any reason for the broken friendship between two guys,
the reason could be either both liked the same girl or both were being fooled in love by the same girl.
Otherwise, here... guys don't have silly reasons as the girls have.. to break the friendship.


These were two situations I've seen right from the time I have entered the college life.

Now.. let... A GUY 'n A GIRL are friends.

OfCourse, a guy & a girl can be friends.

"A best friend to a guy can be a girl but an enemy to a girl can only be a girl.."


So true these lines are.. Isn't it.. ?


When a guy & girl become friends, both respect each other.
Both invest a proper amount a trust & emotions.
Both try to keep a healthy friendship. 
No..... I am not saying that.. girls cannot be true friends, but the worst kind of comparison is done among the girls only. 
But girls.. if you are lucky to have a girl as a best friend, never betray her trust..
B'c0z as u get hurt, others also get hurt....! ( ._.)

MEMORIES........!!!

Heart cries, so do my eyes.. :'(

It really hurts when you miss your life.

Life was wonderful then..

NO LOVE....Only friends in then.

Things were so straight 'n so fine..

No commitments were in line.

We enjoyed our company and friendship began..

We teased each other with others in clan.

Projects, Studies, Parties were in talks..

"Boss, whose love story is on the rocks?"

Beautiful was the time...Enjoyed a lot..

Then came an end to tear us apart.

Final exams were over...Time was to say Good-Bye..

Wished that time had never passed-by.

Some showed courage to propose their Dream Girls..

Some were still shy to take a step forward.

Some Love Stories came to an end..

While some started afresh to continue till the end.

Pictures were taken for memories forever..Friends made promises to stay in touch and loose never.

Evening it was...all were to depart..

Nearby one's said 'Let's party hard'.

I was standing aloof of them all...Thinking..

Is it the end or a new start for all?

Time passed by...All were scattered..

Only closed one's in contact...Other's din't matter.

MBA or Job was on their mind..Weekend Masti was still on time.
Months have passed 'n all have been settled..
Now we talk but on Facebook 'n whatsApp.
Job/Career is eating most of our time..
Rest of it is Study 'n family time.
Every time we decide 'n fix up a date..
Which gets postponed...and we have to wait.
Then will come a time another..
We'll have partners 'n kids all together.
Meeting then will be a tougher task..
A minute the call will also not last.
My Life was fun...I had tensions none..
Friends were on cards...That was done
Time has changed 'n it will change further..
We all will be in the memories of one another........... !!! :* :* :* :))

FRIENDS OF A FEATHER.......!!! :)

"Childhood friends" or should I call "Chuddy Buddies" - The Family Friends....??? ;-)
There are some friendships that we remember forever... These are the friendships that were formed when we were children... The quality of sharing is not the same as in adult friendships... However, in a certain way the friendship has a deeper quality.
U make friends throughout ur life... As a child, u make friends looking at a person that supports u when u are playing and something is not working out right for u; they are ur mates and they have same ideas as of urs, they are as creative as u are and they have same likes and dislikes which u possess. With the course of time, u move ahead and make some more friends in ur high school or college or even in office but they are not the same. The relationship u have with ur childhood buddy is something that is special and unique.

I already have a boy best buddy- The Chuddy Buddy, who fulfils all the constraints of a crazy best buddy....! ;-)

Known to him since “I was 6 months old... As He was born when I had completed approx 6 months... ! :-P :-D"  – CHECK

Had several silly fights, boxing types fights... LOlllllzZz.., including every silly, non-sense reasons... ! - CHECK

Need to discuss every intimate detail of life with eachother – CHECK

Have endless non-sense talks for constructive criticism and unbiased perspective like “Break up with him NOW, she's/he’s a moron” – CHECK

Every girl need a male best buddy b'c0z they’re less emotional than girl best buddies when it comes to dealing with emotional issues. This is good in a way because they lend practicality to situations, a quality that girl tend to lack at most times. Girl best friends might further complicate matters by digging deeper and uncovering sub-layers of non-issues. In technical terms... :-P ...as male best buddies are just being more “chiller.” - ekdum pagal types....! :-P

 U never forget the 1st friends u make and the reason is probably the sincerity and love you have for them. U are affectionate and dedicated to their help, thoughts, visions and aims. The memories and moments U spend with them are special, precious and joyful. It is something, which is priceless and incomparable. However, sometimes u get so busy with ur life later on that u don’t get time for such relationships, especially when u are in a relationship or by ur mate's dislike towards ur boy best buddy.

Atlast, I just wanna say that "In this matter of time, U shouldn’t forget the importance of childhood friendship and u should always nurture it. U should keep ur friends informed and u should communicate. It is important that u still share ur wealth of happiness and blessings with ur childhood best buddy..................!!!! :):):)"




ALSO CHECK :

http://diarypagesofayounggirl.blogspot.in/

http://my1stnlastlove.blogspot.in/

http://archiethesmilingpearl.blogspot.in/

FRIENDS : The True Angels....!!!

Friendship in love may die, but love in friendship never dies..
When everyone else turns away their face....
A friend provides you his shoulder............!!!
Many people start neglecting their friends, when they are in a relationship.
They go on listening to their partner and start distancing themselves from their friends.

The friends feel so bad and start staying away from their path.
But, when the relationship begins to wane,
you don't have anyone else but your friends...!!!

That friend will still listen to you and will happily provide
you with his/her shoulder to cry upon.
That friend will never argue on why you didn't call him/her..
Or why you didn't give them time.
Friends are those amazing people who would always be there.
When you have butterflies in your stomach..after talking to your crush..
Or when you need a shoulder to cry when your partner hurts you..
They would never let you do stupid things alone....!

I am so lucky to have friends who know the lyrics of the song in my heart..
And sing it back to me when I forget it....!!!!!!!
Love your friends.. because they are truely God's angels in disguise.
 

ALSO CHECK :

http://diarypagesofayounggirl.blogspot.in/

http://my1stnlastlove.blogspot.in/

http://archiethesmilingpearl.blogspot.in/

http://nachodeinyaariyan.blogspot.in/

SOMETIMES IN LIFE, U FIND A SPECIAL FRIEND.....!!!

Sometimes in life U find a special friend......
Someone who changes Ur life just by being a part of it. 
Someone who makes U laugh until you can't stop. 
Someone who makes U believe that there really is good 
in the world. 
Someone who convinces U that...there really is an unlocked door just waiting for U to open it. 
This is Forever Friendship.... 
When you're down and the world seems dark and empty, 
Ur forever friends lift you up in spirit and makes that dark.. 
and empty world suddenly seem bright and full. 
Ur forever friend gets you through the hard times, the 
sad times, and the CONFUSED TIMES. 
If U turn and walk away, Ur forever friend follows. 
If U lose Ur way, Ur forever friend guides U and 
cheers U on. 
Ur forever friend holds Ur hand 
and tells U that everything is going to be okay. 
And if U find such a friend, U feel happy 
and complete because U need not worry....! :')



ALSO CHECK :

http://diarypagesofayounggirl.blogspot.in/

http://my1stnlastlove.blogspot.in/

http://archiethesmilingpearl.blogspot.in/

http://nachodeinyaariyan.blogspot.in/

FRIENDS FOREVER....! :):):)

♥  We Started.. Our journey of friendship from no where...!
We quarrelled.. fought.. enjoyed.. freaked out.. and did so many notorious things... ;) ♥

♥ They are really true guys ♥
We together.. Laughed, Irritated, Teased, Smiled.. Always stood by eachother and realized who are true friends. The one that was there "when no-one else seemed to care".

But college days has been over. But in our mind, the MEMORIES last FOREVER AND EVER...! :)) :*


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♥ The most important module of my life was in my "B.Tech" - The Actual Essence of Friendship..! :)):*♥

♥ # Starting 1st... with my BESTEST buddy - "JhiiisSsssss" ( Swapnil Kala )...! :)):*
She is the most admirable person ever in my friend circle. :))
I am really glad that God awarded me with her precious friendship. I always find her as my dearest friend, as my sister. She is a person, who always share my moments, both in happiness and sadness. She never left me alone, even in complicated situations. She is an asset of my whole life. Her friendship & love leads me to consider myself one of the Luckiest Person on the earth.
Thank you "JhiisSs" for everything, everyday, every moment, every memory...! :):*:*:*

♥ # Now, here comes the 2nd cartoon character.. Ooopppsss Sorry, He is the most "BekkUfff" character ( Manoj Rawat ) - Naata.
He is that "HONHAAR" Software Engineer who is always infront of his laptop. Always online on facebook. He simply love to make fun of Me & JhiisSs. A simple but handsome guy.

♥ # Now here comes the 3rd character "M.J." ( Meenakshi Joshi ) - The Gundi.
She is a moody, funny and always serious for her studies, topper hai Ladki Apni ! ;)
She is the only one who used to make notes in Lectures for all of us, for whole ECE.
Thank you M.J. for "Pakaa-Pakaaya Khilaane Ke Liye". ;-)

♥ # Apart from these cartoons, Another Person is "MitthU" ( Ankur Yadav ).
The most interesting feature about him is his Latest PJs that are inspired by Naata. And I & JhiiisSsss have to tolerate all those PJs. HeeHeeh... ;D
He use to take a large number of photographs of TREES, BIRDS, ANIMALS, GROUND, WATER, INSECTS, everything's except "OURs"..! Lollllll... :-P :))

♥ # And Here comes the last but not the least - "KukkU" ( Koyal Mittal ).
She is a MAST person, lil bit unpredictable, emotional, but Bindass, interesting, mast girl.
Shirt-day pe rone wali, college over hone ke baad, ghar jaate-jaate McD ke baahar sabke saamne apne sath-sath mujhe rulaane wali.
Miss you yaar...! :( :)):* ♥

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So, here was "SOME IDIOTS" who found eachother from the different "CORNERS" of the college. :):):)

Thank you Crazy BekkUffffffzZzzz...! ;) :))) :*

Thanx a lotttt for being in my life ! :*♥

Love you all...! :*





ALSO CHECK :

http://diarypagesofayounggirl.blogspot.in/

http://my1stnlastlove.blogspot.in/

http://archiethesmilingpearl.blogspot.in/

http://nachodeinyaariyan.blogspot.in/